Men are sexual animals; they are always in heat and even when they aren’t in heat, they are firing their heater up, ready to burn any vagina they find.Porn Addict Doctor Left Two Emergency Ceasareans To Have Sex With A Prostitute
Porn addict, Rupert Pemsel, 32, paid for sex with a prostitute between emergency caesareans and told the Tribunal deliberating his case that he wanted to take his ‘obsession to another level’.
The father-of-two escaped being fired form his job as an anaestheist because the Tribunal decided striking him off would be ‘depriving’ the public of good doctor.
Rupert is married to a Nigerian woman, Sheyi, 40, a GP who forgave and stood by her husband all through the tribunal.
Dr Rupert Pemsel, 32, spent 40 minutes in an on-call room in Princess Anne Hospital in Southampton with a 29-year-old woman.
– Dr Carl Jung
Due to certain situations and circumstances, some men aren’t able to find stimulation with their partners or wives or perhaps they have no one at all; therefore, they go out to seek their reward.
But, in order to sate their sexual appetite, they also have to sate the financial appetite of the woman who wants to feed them sexually. So, money for sex.
Read: I Just Had A Threesome With My Boyfriend And Best Friend
Therefore, if you have ever paid for sex, you were a prostitute. If you are currently paying for sex, you are a prostitute. If you intend paying for sex, you will be a prostitute.
Five Reasons Men Who Pay For Sex Are Prostitutes Too
What exactly is being paid for:
Men do not pay for sex, they pay for the woman to leave after the sex without running her mouth like a girlfriend would.
Women do not get paid for sex, they get paid for understanding their time is up and it’s time to get the hell out. Without the man having to say it.
Kind of like being in a bad relationship where everyone knows their place. Speak only when spoken to else, shut the hell up.
The psychology of sexual appeal:
There is an appeal in the mind of a man who patronizes prostitutes.
It’s a mind game of “I have the money, you have the vagina, therefore I own it”.
Knowing they own the vagina no matter how short or long it might be, gives these men control; same way these prostitutes feel especially after they have been paid.
Prostitutes rarely say “No”:
Because it has to be paid for, one is cautious when choosing a woman to sleep with. She must be everything one’s partner isn’t, must be willing to do everything or let everything be done to her.
Things one’s partner ordinarily would say “No” to.
Female prostitutes rarely say “No”, just like the men who patronize them do not take “No” for an answer, particularly, when it involves a piece of ass they are already attracted to.
Prostitutes have a shared fantasy:
Men who pay for prostitutes have fantasies. And they want these fulfilled. Female prostitutes have their own fantasies as well, though it’s usually monetary.
Therefore, with this balance of equation, the woman aims at satisfying her client to his utmost pleasure so he can happily reach deeper into his pocket when paying her and she can fulfill some of her “material or financial fantasies”.
If a man feels he hasn’t been satisfied; he goes off to find a woman who can satisfy his fantasies; regardless of how much it would cost him.
Zero complications:
Prostitutes, both men and women alike do not want complications. The last thing a female prostitute needs is to be impregnated by her client; same way the last thing a man needs is to contract an STD from a female client.
Both parties aren’t friends. They do not care about each other’s past, present or future.
One of them could be struck by a lightening bolt and the other wouldn’t even write an RIP for them lest people become aware they know the other personally.
Both parties avoid complications like the spanish flu.
Read: Freaky Friday: 5 Reasons Why He Won’t Eat Your P
Now you know if you pay for sex as a man, you are also a prostitute.
Therefore, say no to free-sex, lol, rather paid sex. Be like me and only have sex when you want to cum, freely, of your own volition. With a partner who has the same standards.
Women love men that have a certain
amount of experience when it comes to sex as it can be pretty awkward
for them to be with a man still learning the ropes.
As a man, you’re allowed very little room for error especially considering the fact that sex is innate and natural and is something people have been doing long before the advent of pornography. You can mask your inexperience by learning the ropes irrespective of whether you’re a virgin or a geek.
Research
It is essential you do as much research as possible to gain knowledge of the things women enjoy doing. You don’t have to go far to learn extreme sexual acts such as mapping out her G-spot or learning about BDSM. More so, a number of online forums exist that can give you a good insight into the sexual experiences of people during their early days. This can help to remind you to relax and know that there’s really nothing to worry about.
Expand Your Visual Knowledge
And by expanding your visual knowledge, we mean you should consider learning from pornographic materials. Watching pornography can do a lot to expand your knowledge about sex and everything in between. It’s however best you have at the back of your mind that pornography is usually over dramatized and it’s best not to try out everything you see the first time out. Follow the basic routines and techniques do that you won’t disappoint your partner when you do it in real life.
READ: Men’s Health Thursday: Why Watching Porn With Your Partner Is Not Such A Bad Idea
Work On Yourself
Even though masturbation is not completely advisable, it can be of great help to you in getting to know your body better. Masturbation can also help you prep your body and mind to last longer even though you’re only fantasising but it can help you practise and visualise what it’s like to have sex with some form of experience. Having a good knowledge of your body will be of advantage to you when the real thing commences.
Keep It Secret
The essence of this article is to help you gain sufficient expertise to convince her that you have enough experience under your belt to do it well in bed, right? As such, you should not consider telling her it is your first time; neither should you go down the route of bragging to her how many women you’ve been with. Any man man that feels the need to brag about his sexual experience appears to be compensating for a lack of it by talking about how good he is.
READ: 5 Common Sex Mistakes Men Make
Learn The Basics
Learn the basics of sex first. Learn the things that turm her on, where her erogenous zones are located on her her body, the way her body functions and any other way you can please her. You want to give off an experienced outlook but you still shouldn’t appear over experienced to an extent that she thinks you’ve slept with hundreds of women.
Have Good Hygiene
There’s nothing as bad as a man that has body odour or smelly breath. If you go into the bedroom like this with your partner, it reeks off inexperience because she expects you to know that brushing your teeth and showering before sex shows courtesy. Taking a shower, brushing your teeth, putting on cologne, deodorant, and clean underwear are the basics of good hygiene and will go a long way in giving a lasting impression.
READ: #Men’s Health Thursday: How To Stop Funky Smells Down There
Say As Little As Possible During Sex
It doesn’t hurt to moan and groan the manly way as it helps to tell her you’re into it, but make sure they are few and far between. Having a full blown conversation during sex can kill the mood. Repeatedly asking her how she feels about a particular sex position should be avoided, so also is going crazy with the moans which can be a huge turn off for her. Avoid giving off an impression that you’re surprised by any sex position or act she brings up as that can also turn her off.
You can ask her if she’s comfortable with a particular position or if she’s enjoying something you’re doing but remember not to go overboard with your questions.
Don’t Question Her Too Much After Sex
You’d probably hurt your relationship more by interrogating her after sex on how good the sex session was. Going further to ask her if you’re better than the last guy she was with or asking her which sex position is her favourite will only make her see you an an inexperienced beginner. What most women want after sex is cuddling up to you. There’s really no need to ask her how it was since you’d most likely deduce from her non-verbal communication and if not, you’d know certainly if she comes around the next time.
As a man, you’re allowed very little room for error especially considering the fact that sex is innate and natural and is something people have been doing long before the advent of pornography. You can mask your inexperience by learning the ropes irrespective of whether you’re a virgin or a geek.
Research
It is essential you do as much research as possible to gain knowledge of the things women enjoy doing. You don’t have to go far to learn extreme sexual acts such as mapping out her G-spot or learning about BDSM. More so, a number of online forums exist that can give you a good insight into the sexual experiences of people during their early days. This can help to remind you to relax and know that there’s really nothing to worry about.
Expand Your Visual Knowledge
And by expanding your visual knowledge, we mean you should consider learning from pornographic materials. Watching pornography can do a lot to expand your knowledge about sex and everything in between. It’s however best you have at the back of your mind that pornography is usually over dramatized and it’s best not to try out everything you see the first time out. Follow the basic routines and techniques do that you won’t disappoint your partner when you do it in real life.
READ: Men’s Health Thursday: Why Watching Porn With Your Partner Is Not Such A Bad Idea
Work On Yourself
Even though masturbation is not completely advisable, it can be of great help to you in getting to know your body better. Masturbation can also help you prep your body and mind to last longer even though you’re only fantasising but it can help you practise and visualise what it’s like to have sex with some form of experience. Having a good knowledge of your body will be of advantage to you when the real thing commences.
Keep It Secret
The essence of this article is to help you gain sufficient expertise to convince her that you have enough experience under your belt to do it well in bed, right? As such, you should not consider telling her it is your first time; neither should you go down the route of bragging to her how many women you’ve been with. Any man man that feels the need to brag about his sexual experience appears to be compensating for a lack of it by talking about how good he is.
READ: 5 Common Sex Mistakes Men Make
Learn The Basics
Learn the basics of sex first. Learn the things that turm her on, where her erogenous zones are located on her her body, the way her body functions and any other way you can please her. You want to give off an experienced outlook but you still shouldn’t appear over experienced to an extent that she thinks you’ve slept with hundreds of women.
Have Good Hygiene
There’s nothing as bad as a man that has body odour or smelly breath. If you go into the bedroom like this with your partner, it reeks off inexperience because she expects you to know that brushing your teeth and showering before sex shows courtesy. Taking a shower, brushing your teeth, putting on cologne, deodorant, and clean underwear are the basics of good hygiene and will go a long way in giving a lasting impression.
READ: #Men’s Health Thursday: How To Stop Funky Smells Down There
Say As Little As Possible During Sex
It doesn’t hurt to moan and groan the manly way as it helps to tell her you’re into it, but make sure they are few and far between. Having a full blown conversation during sex can kill the mood. Repeatedly asking her how she feels about a particular sex position should be avoided, so also is going crazy with the moans which can be a huge turn off for her. Avoid giving off an impression that you’re surprised by any sex position or act she brings up as that can also turn her off.
You can ask her if she’s comfortable with a particular position or if she’s enjoying something you’re doing but remember not to go overboard with your questions.
Don’t Question Her Too Much After Sex
You’d probably hurt your relationship more by interrogating her after sex on how good the sex session was. Going further to ask her if you’re better than the last guy she was with or asking her which sex position is her favourite will only make her see you an an inexperienced beginner. What most women want after sex is cuddling up to you. There’s really no need to ask her how it was since you’d most likely deduce from her non-verbal communication and if not, you’d know certainly if she comes around the next time.
A lot of the things we do in the
bathroom are laden with dangers which we may not know about. Whether you
believe it or not, the level of domestic risk to you in your house
increases the moment you step into your bathroom. Here are six important
things you must avoid doing to reduce the risk of injury in your home.
Using An Old Shower Head
According to a study conducted at the University of Colorado at Boulder, a sizable number of showerheads contain bacteria that are potentially harmful. This is so because showerheads contain numerous nooks and crannies which provide nutrients and comfort for pathogenic microbes to thrive.
Furthermore, highly efficient showerheads release water that contain high numbers of bacteria and aerosols which can penetrate deep into your airways. Bleach is not all that effective in destroying these bacteria as they usually grow back after being treated with bleach. Rain-type showerheads are ideal along with showerheads with a single stream of water.
Always change your showerheads.
Shower Sex
Shower sex can help you get your groove on especially if you have a large bathroom and bath tub. It is however dangerous because for a number of reasons including a slippery tub, limited space to move around for you and your partner and the risk of falling. It is best to do everything in the shower except full blown sex to avoid falls which may lead to serious domestic accidents. It’s best you save the sex for when you both hit dry ground.
READ: Explicit Pictures Of Big Brother Mzansi Housemates Having Sex In The Shower (18+)
Not Having A Bathroom Mat
The Center for Disease Control and Prevention published a report stating that more than 230,000 accidental injuries occurred in the bathroom in 2011 alone. About 20 percent of those injuries were said to have occurred as a result of slipping. These accidents could have been avoided by having bathroom mats which can be helpful in preventing falls. More so, you can consider fitting grab bars that you can hold on to inside and outside your bathrooms.
Overusing Your Sponge
Sponges are good for exfoliation and removal of dead skin but they are also good habitat for bacteria. It is important you wash your sponge at least once a week in vinegar or detergent solution. Squeeze it out and hang it out to dry. If you use a wash cloth, it is also important you wash it weekly following the same procedure as you would do with a sponge. Ensure you squeeze out as much water as you can after use and hang it out to dry.
READ: #Men’s Health Thursday: How To Stop Funky Smells Down There
Showers During A Thunderstorm
It’s quite dangerous to be close to any plumbing or wiring materials in and around your house during a thunderstorm. This is because lightning can strike a buried power line and come through your plumbing pipes. As such, it’s best to avoid the bathroom, hard-wired video games or computers, and talking on land phones. Even if the thunder strikes at a distance from your house, the lightning is usually still enough to damage electrical appliances in your house and also shock you.
Having A Bath Before Going To Bed
Having a shower at night is beneficial for a lot of reasons. It can help you wash off the dirt of the day and shave off some time off your morning routine. If you are the type that takes hot baths, ensure you do so at least 2 hours before going to bed because the change in your external body temperature can affect your body’s natural sensors that triggers sleep according to a study published in The American Journal of Biology.
Using An Old Shower Head
According to a study conducted at the University of Colorado at Boulder, a sizable number of showerheads contain bacteria that are potentially harmful. This is so because showerheads contain numerous nooks and crannies which provide nutrients and comfort for pathogenic microbes to thrive.
Furthermore, highly efficient showerheads release water that contain high numbers of bacteria and aerosols which can penetrate deep into your airways. Bleach is not all that effective in destroying these bacteria as they usually grow back after being treated with bleach. Rain-type showerheads are ideal along with showerheads with a single stream of water.
Always change your showerheads.
Shower Sex
Shower sex can help you get your groove on especially if you have a large bathroom and bath tub. It is however dangerous because for a number of reasons including a slippery tub, limited space to move around for you and your partner and the risk of falling. It is best to do everything in the shower except full blown sex to avoid falls which may lead to serious domestic accidents. It’s best you save the sex for when you both hit dry ground.
READ: Explicit Pictures Of Big Brother Mzansi Housemates Having Sex In The Shower (18+)
Not Having A Bathroom Mat
The Center for Disease Control and Prevention published a report stating that more than 230,000 accidental injuries occurred in the bathroom in 2011 alone. About 20 percent of those injuries were said to have occurred as a result of slipping. These accidents could have been avoided by having bathroom mats which can be helpful in preventing falls. More so, you can consider fitting grab bars that you can hold on to inside and outside your bathrooms.
Overusing Your Sponge
Sponges are good for exfoliation and removal of dead skin but they are also good habitat for bacteria. It is important you wash your sponge at least once a week in vinegar or detergent solution. Squeeze it out and hang it out to dry. If you use a wash cloth, it is also important you wash it weekly following the same procedure as you would do with a sponge. Ensure you squeeze out as much water as you can after use and hang it out to dry.
READ: #Men’s Health Thursday: How To Stop Funky Smells Down There
Showers During A Thunderstorm
It’s quite dangerous to be close to any plumbing or wiring materials in and around your house during a thunderstorm. This is because lightning can strike a buried power line and come through your plumbing pipes. As such, it’s best to avoid the bathroom, hard-wired video games or computers, and talking on land phones. Even if the thunder strikes at a distance from your house, the lightning is usually still enough to damage electrical appliances in your house and also shock you.
Having A Bath Before Going To Bed
Having a shower at night is beneficial for a lot of reasons. It can help you wash off the dirt of the day and shave off some time off your morning routine. If you are the type that takes hot baths, ensure you do so at least 2 hours before going to bed because the change in your external body temperature can affect your body’s natural sensors that triggers sleep according to a study published in The American Journal of Biology.
Porn Addict Doctor Left Two Emergency Ceasareans To Have Sex With A Prostitute
Porn addict, Rupert Pemsel, 32, paid for sex with a prostitute between emergency caesareans and told the Tribunal deliberating his case that he wanted to take his ‘obsession to another level’.The father-of-two escaped being fired form his job as an anaestheist because the Tribunal decided striking him off would be ‘depriving’ the public of good doctor.
Rupert is married to a Nigerian woman, Sheyi, 40, a GP who forgave and stood by her husband all through the tribunal.
Dr Rupert Pemsel, 32, spent 40 minutes in an on-call room in Princess Anne Hospital in Southampton with a 29-year-old woman.
Sheyi blamed the addiction to Internet pornography and stress from helping ill children in Uganda.
Pemsel’s barrister Edward Pleeth proposed no action should be taken against the father-of-two because he is an ‘excellent doctor’ during the Medical Practitioners Tribunal Service hearing in Manchester.
The doctor who is also a trained pilot was instead suspended from the medical register for ten months for the ‘sordid sexual encounter’.
When tribunal chairwoman Lisa Smith told him: ”In the tribunal’s view, you have put your personal desires above your professional responsibilities”.
Trainee anaesthetist Pemsel, from Winchester, stared straight ahead as the verdict was being read.
Smith continued : ”The tribunal considered the circumstances in which you brought an escort to the hospital premises where you engaged in a sordid sexual encounter whilst on duty.
The tribunal considers that the suspension of your registration would mark the seriousness of your abhorrent behavior.
Indeed, it is of the view that public confidence in the profession would be seriously undermined if a lesser sanction were to be imposed”.
Expounding on why Pemsel wasn’t struck off, she added: ‘The tribunal considered whether your conduct and behavior warrant red a higher sanction.
That of erasure. However, it has taken into account that you are committed to continuing to practice medicine.
It would not benefit the public to be deprived of the services of a clinically good doctor”.
The hearing heard that Pemsel was due to begin a night-shift at the Princess Anne Hospital in Southampton on December 29 2013 when he decided to book escort Leanne Kennedy, 29.
In between helping with emergency caesareans, Pemsel – still in his hospital scrubs – let Kennedy into the hospital and took her to a private room where they had sex.
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