What qualifies a man to be termed “Classy”? Can a man be called “Classy” without being “Rich”?
“Classy” means having or reflecting high standards in a person’s
behavior as well as graceful, showing impressive demeanor. Classy
qualities for a man includes respecting women, using proper language
rather than the popular street slangs, dressing up appropriately with
pants at a decent waist level, not too high and not too low. Classy men
don’t sag their pants. Pant sagging is a prison-fashion that became
accepted by people who ought be free.
Ponder on this questions for
a moment as we begin this journey to unlock every woman’s dream which
is to end up with that prince charming. To lock it down with a guy
that’s got class and wealth. What qualifies a man to be termed “Classy”?
Respect, Humility, Character, Responsible, Intelligent, Neat amongst
lots of other traits. Can a man be called “Classy” without being “Rich”?
Yes.
Being Classy is intrinsic, a trait you absorb from within. Being Rich is extrinsic, a material you acquire from without.
If you have If you take away riches from a classy man, he still stays classy
because being classy is a personality, it’s a strong character trait you
learn and ingrain into your mind. Riches only accentuate a man’s class,
it doesn’t define it. But if you take away class from a rich man you
will discover he’s just a nuisance. Drama king. He has nothing to lose
and nothing to protect so they can drag you down and disgrace you
anyday, anytime, anywhere. Shameless people. They are always out to
bicker and fight over everything. And they never forget to remind you
that they are rich. “He’ll be like, I have money and I can get any girl I
want” Uh, please swerve with your gassed up self.
Classy men
without money have this confidence that makes a woman love them, esp. if
they have prospects. They give you hope, cos you are so attracted to
them you sometimes even forget they are broke and can’t really take care
of you both. The woman would be willing to spend hers, gladly, for him.
Just cos he’s “classy”.
ver listened to Chris Brown ‘’Loyal’’, you would
understand that the last thing any woman wants is to date a broke and/or
foolish man.
No matter how rich the woman is she still wants a
guy that can step up to her financial level. She might not take a dime
from you, but she just expects that if she can treat you to breakfast in
the executive suite at Transcorp Hotel, you shouldn’t take her to one
run-down motel or if she can fly you both somewhere nice to Netflix and
chill, you don’t invite her to take a bus on a 5000-mile journey to see
you at your run-down shack because she loves you and accepts your measly
money situation just cos you can’t step up your financial game.
For the argument, she should love you for you, please answer this,
“Would you like to be with a woman who is a financial liability to you?
Always looking to collect like you needed a personal tax-collector?
Always asking for something, Always ‘I need this, I need that’?’’
Why then do you want to be someone’s liability? You’ll love her, fuck
her but can’t support and assist her when she needs it. Keep your dick
bruv.
That’s why women get paid for SEX cos they’d rather be
fucked and paid than be fucked and broke, and it’s all your fault cos
when you see the woman that loves you for real, you always mess up, you
always just have to shit in your pants and the stink never washes off.
If you want just SEX, say it. You just might be lucky but don’t give
mixed signals just for SEX, you either step up and be a classy man or
politely clear the room for the man of class whom the woman deserves.
Only a classy man (rich or not) knows the art of “no strings attached”.
But how does she get this rich and classy man?
As
a woman, to get a rich and classy man you need to have more than sex
appeal. Else, you’ll just be a fuck mate. The classy man is operating
from an intellectual level so having only the superficial to offer him
is a no-no for him. He doesn’t even expect SEX from you. If it happens,
fine, if it doesn’t, still fine. The classy man is looking for his
intellectual equal
even if she isn’t as rich as he is.
Regardless
who made the first move, a woman must exude confidence not attitude,
charisma not packaging, intelligence not brain-dead before she can be
interesting enough to attract the man.
Naturally beautiful – “Beauty” they say “is in the eyes
of the beholder”. The rich and classy man can easily spot a woman who
is naturally beautiful and a woman who is “make-up” beautiful. He has
original tastes so he will always go for quality rather than quantity.
He knows a woman who is beautiful cos he isn’t even interested in the
physical to begin with. Yes, good looks is an attraction but he can
easily lose interest if a woman is just a dumb-blonde.
Spend time at the spa – pay attention to your skin.
When you have clear skin, you really don’t need all the make-up. Look
fresh. Your make-up should be as natural or nude as possible, your hair
properly arranged, clothing must be elegant. Invest in the quality
products if you must roll with the classy and rich man as he would want
to take you out to all the posh places and maybe show you off so you
must at least look up to his level. Invest in nice, quality clothes that
accentuate your body without you desperately trying to look sexy. If
you aren’t sure on what to wear, dresses can be a life saver, just wear
the pattern, fabric or print that suits your skin tone and where he’s
taking you. You must always, always look nice when with a classy guy.
Nothing loud or provocative, the woman’s clothing must be elegant,
stylish, or fashionable and comfortable.
The rich guy is in a class of his own so he knows
how women in his class operate and can easily place which ladder you’re
hanging from. Gold-digger? Desperate? No/Low-prospects? Smart?
Futuristic? Independent? Lazy? etc The classy guy sees through every
façade because he is aware of the effect his material possession has on
women so he is waiting to discover if you’re like every other woman he
has met or if you are different; so he’ll give you the chance to show
yourself. And you wouldn’t even know he’s accessing you to decide if
you’re up to his level.
One of the benefits of being rich is being
able to afford anything you want which includes the man’s array of
women to pick from. The rich and classy guy has been there and done that
so if you are looking to get him, your beauty must come from within.
You
must have an interesting and amazing personality that glows through
you. That person is who he really wants to be with but you first you
just be willing to get some class if you have none. Some women are just
razz, they are so ghetto, you don’t even want people to spot you with
them and it’s silly to mistake trashy for crazy or sexy.
You have to be humbly confident, gracefully crazy and intellectually sexy to get a rich and classy man.
His Fantasy – He wants a woman to call his, which is
what you want so you should make yourself his very fantasy come true.
Every man is different so you must understand the man you want to use
this moves on for it to work effectively. His fantasies can include
having a woman that can wear his team jersey and support his club or
play video games with him on a lazy day or go with him to the orphanage
to give back to society or just read a book together on some nights.
It’s
never ever just about SEX with the classy man. His money must have
afforded him his sexual desires before he met you so don’t go concluding
that all you need is to fuck him to lock him. Ain’t nobody got time for
that.
Finger His Mind – Like minds attract so he’ll love
to share common interests with you. If he’s a new poach, share his
interests. Whatever he tells you likes, accept it, even if it’s stupid.
Men feel better when they can comfortable in your presence. If you are
more intelligent, better. He’ll never agree to a woman being smarter but
if he really likes you he’ll definitely respect you for being able to
hold your own intellectually.
If you can teach him things he
doesn’t know, awaken his consciousness to things, values, concepts,
ideas. He’ll want you around him a lot more, and you know that’s a for
sure sign he’s into you. Women should learn to see themselves as more
than just sex symbols or tools for sexual satisfaction. If you feel all
you have to offer a man is SEX, well he’ll take it and still leave you.
Don’t be docile – Classy men love a
challenge and being rich just makes every adventure more creative. Show
him how much fun you are by letting him lead the pace (as the man)
while arousing and maintaining his interest. Being intelligent means
being knowledgeable about a lot of things so the more you know, the more
you both have to talk about. Don’t be shy to express yourself, but
always do it with respect. Classy people have respect.
Discuss
with him on topics you are knowledgeable about. Don’t show-off your
knowledge cos you can’t know everything. Just impress him with how
humble you are despite being so intelligent. In a discussion on certain
topics or subject matter, always gracefully bow out of arguments or
debates when you don’t have facts to back your points esp. if he has
facts to back his. Jokingly shower him with praise for being smart. It
boosts his ego and does well for you too cos when you make him that
happy, he’ll defo return the favor.
One step ahead – Always be prepared. Think on behalf
of you both. If he approaches you on first meeting, offer him a drink,
even if you can’t afford it, the gesture would be a prized memory and
would endear you to him. If you’re going out on a first date, contribute
by buying a least an orbit gum or bar of mars, snickers or bottled
water at least. He knows you might not be as buoyant as he but he’ll
know you aren’t hungry or desperate for some cash from him. It’s
probably been a while any woman bought him anything.
To get a rich and classy dude, the woman must also be classy in her own right else it would be a waste of her time.
Saturday, 16 July 2016
How To Attract A Rich And Classy Man
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